Many parents believe “custody” determines who wins after separation. In reality, Canadian law now focuses more on “decision-making responsibility” and “parenting time.” Decision-making responsibility refers to who makes major decisions about a child’s life, such as education, healthcare and religion. Parenting time refers to when the child spends time with each parent. Courts do not favour one parent over another. Instead, they focus on what is best for the child. This includes maintaining strong relationships with both parents whenever possible. A parenting plan can help reduce conflict. It outlines schedules, holidays and responsibilities clearly. This ensures both parents understand their roles. In some cases, one parent may have primary parenting time, while in others, time may be shared equally. Every case is unique. Legal advice is essential when negotiating these arrangements. A well-structured agreement today can prevent disputes tomorrow.